Last Tuesday I got an email with the Subject: Furlough Update. I was one of the last employees to get notified that my job was being terminated.  My time in Hawaii is over. I also knew that it was a possibility given the impact of

Do you have a hard time asking for help? If you do, you're not alone.  I have a friend going through what I call the change trifecta -- divorce, job change and possible relocation in the midst of our collective change.  She shared with me

Last Thursday I had a conversation with a family member that didn't end well.  When I reflect on our exchange the one simple thing I could have done was to just listen.  But I went into fix and solution mode and said, "If you did that